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From series Path or goal?
  1. Resistance helps you reach your goal
  2. But there is a word “need”
  3. Or come up with a goal for yourself

I love how ideas that sound banal and magical actually work when they turn into practical things.

I just thought that resistance helps because… What is the essence of the resistance you are experiencing? A reaction, a hint from the body that something is wrong. This means you need to step back and try again, then do the same thing, but a little differently.

One might object: “What about overcoming difficulties? Maybe sometimes it’s worth overpowering yourself and getting through the difficulty? Break yourself? Of course, you can look at this in different ways and I will be happy to hear your point of view in the comments.

I believe that (and here is an often-heard and, at first glance, banal idea) we have a way. So there is a goal. So how can we be hindered by an obstacle if the goal is clear? We’ll get there sooner or later. Or we won’t get there. Perhaps we’ll find a new goal along the way.

Also think about the fact that there are nested goals. One global and many smaller ones. They are also goals, but at the same time they are also pointers that lead to the global one.

This means that what we should learn, what we should pay a lot of attention to is the ability to find a goal.

February 19, 2024

The other day I worked on photographs of Nikita that I took last summer. I sent it to him. A few hours later I received a review.

It’s very nice to receive sincere feedback about a project that I did with pleasure and love. This is not an advertisement or a moment of vanity. I knew that the project was cool and the person appreciated the result - everything was natural and it couldn’t have been any other way.

Screenshot of the review
Nikita’s review

Wow, this is so cool ✨✨✨ I haven’t had any photos like this!

The best thing is to guess these long days 😇

Is there an Instagram? I wish I could decide 😉

But, you can get feedback that will mentally return you to your routine - “Oh no, that was a pussy!” Even if the author of this review uses the most colorful epithets, this is a fake. You created a fake, you were valued falsely, all you have to do is falsely rejoice. Most people today are living a fake life.

  • Feeling is a skill
  • Understanding who is worth working with and who is not is a skill
  • Creating by sincerely expressing yourself is a skill

This will definitely not be taught in trainings or at university. They teach just the opposite - how not to be your real self, but to be like this one (or that one). How to put away your best qualities, replacing them with a cheap fake. How to rejoice correctly, radiate confidence and optimism.

Back to the review. Yes, it was a sunny summer evening. Good evening!

We work with people and for people. Alive and real. It is extremely important to sincerely express yourself while enjoying the process - this is the basis for great results and truly satisfied clients.

Don’t deceive others! Do not lie to yourself!

P.s. I’ll post photos a little later. I’ll add the link here.

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